Changing someone's world view that's backed up by experiences isn't easy, so it's likely not the best target. Even if you could destroying the fantasy world in which an emotionally fragile person withdraws is no good idea.

I would rather focus on making her feel safe and helping her to be emotionally stable.

But what do you do when she tells you about "unusual" experiences? I would recommend to listen and ask her questions like: "How does it make you feel that the spirit stands guard?", "How does it make you feel to tell me this sto... (read more)

But what do you do when she tells you about "unusual" experiences?

Mostly I just listen and reassure her that I don't think she's crazy.

-3CronoDAS5yThis is me hoping not to get caught. :(

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by MrMind 1 min read31st Mar 2015180 comments


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