A whole 1 1/2 years? Took me a lot longer than that.

I think on of the turning events was for me my first Bachata Congress in Berlin. I didn't know too many Bachata patterns and after hours of dancing the brain just switches off and let's the body do it's thing.

But you are right that it might well take longer for the average guy. That means it's not a good training exercise to pick up the skill of letting go control for man.

For woman on the other hand it's something to be learned at the beginning.

Yes, the unfortunate fact is that most leads are taught

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Open thread, January 25- February 1

by NancyLebovitz 1 min read25th Jan 2014318 comments


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