Previously in sequence: Moonlight Reflected Cross-posted from SecondPerson.dating Rationalism has a dating problem. I don’t mean simply the fact that a lot of rationalists are single, which may be adequately explained by age, sex ratio, and an unusual combination of slow life history with fears of an imminent apocalypse. A...
Previously in sequence: Navigation by Moonlight Cross-posted from SecondPerson.dating. I’m very proud of Navigation by Moonlight, and not just because it got a warm reception and resonated with many readers. I’m proud because I didn’t understand it well enough to write about even six months ago. Which, coincidentally, is when...
Previously in sequence: You Are not a Thought Experiment Cross-posted from SecondPerson.dating. I want to conclude our interplanetary exploration of sex differences with one that’s of great interest to me personally: there seems to be little explicit advice on dating for women, and almost none of it is written by...
Previously in sequence: Love is Love, Science is Fake Cross-posted from SecondPerson.dating. You awaken on a couch in a strange room. Throw pillows look warm in the soft lamplight, the rug has a complex, asymmetric pattern. A pale, dark-haired woman walks in and sits across the small coffee table. You...
Previously in the sequence: Coupling for Decouplers — Intro Cross-posted from SecondPerson.dating. In my essay on "dating advice", we discussed the dating books full of recipe-like instructions for your romantic life. These recipes don’t really work, even for the men who write them. You need to know how to demonstrate...
Rationalist don't talk about dating much. At least — not on LessWrong. This is surprising! Dating touches on every theme of interest to rationalists: psychology, game theory, epistemology, signaling, self-transformation, agency, even AI — not to mention most people's personal interest in the matter. I started writing about dating a...
The Real Problem For as long as there have been philosophers, they loved philosophizing about what life really is. Plato focused on nutrition and reproduction as the core features of living organisms. Aristotle claimed that it was ultimately about resisting perturbations. In the East the focus was less on function...