The solution is not to prevent the questions, but to remove the obligation to generate an expensive answer.

Good suggestion.

Thank you, this is the kind of thing I was hoping to find.

What changes do you think the polyamory community has made?

I find this a very suspect detail, though the base rate of cospiracies is very low.

"He wasn't concerned about safety because I asked him," Jennifer said. "I said, 'Aren't you scared?' And he said, 'No, I ain't scared, but if anything happens to me, it's not suicide.'"

https://abcnews4.com/news/local/if-anything-happens-its-not-suicide-boeing-whistleblowers-prediction-before-death-south-carolina-abc-news-4-2024

To be more explicit about my model, I see communities as a bit like people. And sometimes people do the hard work of changing (especially as they have incentives to) but sometimes they ignore it or blame someone else.

Similarly often communties scapegoat something or someone, or give vague general advice.

It seems underrated for LessWrong to have cached high quality answers to questions like this. Also stuff on exercise, nutrition, parenting and schooling. That we don't really have a clear set seems to point towards this being difficult or us being less competent than we'd like.

Nevertheless lots of people were hassled. That has real costs, both to them and to you. 

If that were true then there are many ways you could partially do that - eg give people a set of tokens to represent their mana at the time of the devluation and if at future point you raise. you could give them 10x those tokens back.

I’m discussing with Carson. I might change my mind but i don’t know that i’ll argue with both of you at once.