Extending the Private Language Argument
Two instances of our ways of using the notion of experience: * "Our experience is unavailable to others" (Eg: women's experience, minorities' experience not being available to non-women and non-minorities.) * "We have experienced oppression" (The problem of what is an experience and what is its explanation. While it is...
The only problem is these examples render the very idea of experience superfluous.
And your test case about molestation is such a morally charged issue that I would not hazard logic chopping on it yet. (Hint: if the victim has some way of making sense of the event, it is an experience. If the victim has not emerged from the shock of it, then it is a trauma, a raw event, and not an experience).