I noticed that when people raising awareness of existential AI risk are asked “how exactly would it kill us?”, they typically respond with:
* The specific hypothesized means of killing, like bioweapons, drones, or death as a byproduct of tiling the Earth with data centers.
* Something along the lines of “it’s impossible to predict/like asking how Magnus Carlsen will beat you at chess”.
* A link to a specific scenario like AI 2027 or the IABIED one.
Neither of the first two is satisfactory because the skeptics asking this question usually have no model in their head of how we get to either of these, and both also typically miss the point of the question (see below). The last one requires time and effort that few skeptics would invest, and those who do will be looking for flaws in the specific scenario, which they’ll probably find or at least think they did.
I don’t know if there is a universally best approach to answering this question, but I want to point out two things:
1. Usually, these folks aren't curious about the specific means of killing (e.g., they probably know that WMDs exist), but are implicitly criticizing the idea that there is a clear link between the situation today and AI causing an existential catastrophe.
2. Often, these folks lack even a basic picture of the current state of affairs. For example, they do not know what the current frontier capabilities are, have not heard about the recent incidents or have incorrect beliefs about them, and are unaware that companies have begun automating AI research.
Therefore, if this question is asked in genuine good faith and you have time and space to give a full answer, I think a good approach is to first briefly explain what the current state of affairs is, and then proceed to construct a plausible sequence of events without being too specific or giving any timelines. This could be, e.g.:
AI research is becoming increasingly automated and alignment is nowhere close to being solved → this continues