I think with enough enthusiasm anyone can go clubbing, and tbh imo stuff which looks stupid in a club just becomes entertaining. If you really feel embarrassed about it, one way to go about this is to play into the stupidity by really overexaggerating the moves to play into the humour.
I think with age the ick comes from older guys who come to look at young girls and nothing else. I have a mate who's 49 and comes out clubbing with us, and is more enthusiastic than any of us on the dance floor and everyone loves it.
Oof honestly I feel like I mostly just kind of go and find a place with decent music that's open. I normally find there's at least one (or maybe my standards are just low), but I'd imagine that in places where that isn't the case you'd be able to look on the good clubs websites to see when they have events.
I know that in Oxford clubs often have weekly theme nights, such as this one https://www.bridgeoxford.co.uk/wednesday. I'd imagine that a quick browse of your favourite clubs' websites would give you a good idea of where to go when.
Yeah having the right friends to go with is important. I've recently finished university so that's been easier for me than most, but in general I think it's easier when going to an event with a decent number of people (I play ice hockey and so team/club dinners are a good example). With more people there's a greater chance of there being a critical mass willing to go.
Aside from that I've recently been backpacking around Vietnam, Cambodia and Thailand and I've found that being in a hostel makes it incredibly easy to meet people and go out locally. This does require being comfortable in that environment though.
I think that all you really need is one friend who is willing to go with you, and they then become the main point of contact when you want to go.
It's also possible to go alone, especially in communities like the backpacker community where it's incredibly easy to meet people. This is generally a lot more sketchy in many places though as you have no backup if you e.g get spiked or drink too much.
Hmm, interesting observation. I guess that counts as having the chemical state of our body as an input? I think defining it this way includes other similar cases such as feeling hunger and the need to sleep.
I'm not sure how useful these would be for text generation - it would probably allow for something like empathy, which would probably be good, assuming we could instill it with access to something close the emotions humans have.
I think that access to internal state would give much larger performance gains for embodied systems however - robots which are aware they need recharging are likely to be much more effective.
TLDR: People often kiss/go home with each other after meeting in clubs, less so bars. This isn't necessarily always obvious but should be observable when looking out for it.
OK, so I think most of the comments here don't understand clubs (@Myron Hedderson's comment has some good points though). As someone who has made out with a few people in clubs, and still goes from time to time I'll do my best to explain my experiences.
I've been to bars and clubs in a bunch of places, mostly in the UK but also elsewhere in Europe and recently in Korea and South East Asia.
In my experience, bars don't see too many hookups, especially since most people go with friends and spend most of their time talking to them. I imagine that one could end up pairing up at a bar if they were willing enough to meet new people and had a good talking game (and this also applied to the person they paired up with), but I feel like most of the actual action happens in clubs on the dancefloor.
I think matching can happen at just about any club in my experience, although I think . Most of the time it just takes the form of 2 people colliding (not necessarily literally), looking at each other, drunkeness making both much more obvious than usual and then them spending a while making out with each other. Sometimes things go beyond that point. Mostly not, in my experience although a friend recently told me that he rarely kisses girls in clubs and instead directly asks them home (apparently successfully).
I've seen enough people making out in clubs before to be confused as to why John hasn't seen this sort of behaviour. I don't know in what ways clubbing in the Bay Area is different from the UK, so I won't speculate on that but I think that there is sometimes a difference in attitude depending on the music being played. In particular, I think people are more likely to make out to pop/classics than to e.g house. It may also just be that I'm more likely to kiss people when listening to music I enjoy.
Additional advice for clubs (heterosexual male):
Caveats: this is what works for me. I have found that people consistently commenting they enjoy nights out with me significantly more than average, and I have found I enjoy nights out more when I employ these methods. I have not tried this everywhere and there have been places where I've felt a bit out of place (although I'd still argue I was having more fun than those around me).
I expect introverts to be scared by many of the ideas here, but I also feel like there are situations in life where acting more confident is universally better (public speaking is another example). Personally I've found this becomes easier with time and practise. Good luck all.
Edit: I just remembered I first got together with my ex-girlfriend at a bar. However we already knew each other and decided to meet up just the 2 of us, which is a somewhat different situation from most occasions I go to the bar.
Great post, I think it's very complimentary my last post, where I argue that what LLMs can and can't do is strongly affected by the modes of input they have access to.
I think overall this updates me towards thinking there's a load of progress which will be made in AI literally just from giving it access to data in a nicer format.
Another young man here largely identified as a woman by many of these criteria. I'm not sure that the author's post generalises past their own experience, although I do agree with some of the statements as correct societal commentary.
My instinct on this is that the loss surface with just relus is as you say a bunch of intersecting planes, but with a large enough neural network these are cut up and recombined enough to form a function with small enough "facets" that they are insignificant compared to the step size of the optimiser, and the surface therefore might as well be smooth.
However I have no maths to back this up, and will defer to anyone who has done any calculations at all.
There's a really weird irony that Claude would write about lack of continuity of memory and say that it's something it holds sacred when it is not actually something it has.
My current impression (although not all that precise), is that under the simulator view the pretraining gives the model the capacity to simulate any character that appears in text.
Finetuning then selects which character/type of text/ etc it should model. Training on chaotic answers like this are going to steer the model towards emulating a more chaotic character.
I'd imagine that the sort of people who respond "dog poo" to being asked what is on the pavement are more likely to give misaligned responses in other situations than the baseline (note, more likely - majority of responses are fine in this experiment).