I have faced challenges with negative rumination and anxiety, especially when I am trying to relax or my mind is idle. However, I have recently discovered a simple and effective technique to overcome this.
I practice enumerating as many positive future events as I can, starting with the most probable and desirable ones, calculated by multiplying their probability with the level of happiness they bring, adjusted for their proximity in time.
While the focus is on positive thoughts, I find that this slightly quantitative approach helps me direct my thoughts more effectively. It pushes me to consider realistic and desirable events, countering the natural tendency to dwell on negative scenarios. Additionally, by visualizing medium-probability... (read more)