Using expectation as a limiting factor cannot end well.
(Layman disclaimer) The human immune system has not evolved in dense population. Bats are built differently. Evidence for immunity building looks to me like the studies mostly compare nature kids with indoor dwellers. Outdoor play has way more distance, fresh air and little shared surface.
ASI safety would have to be invented quite often after the first ASIs. Even the best man-made self-stabilizing systems are not very good at surviving random events. ASI ecosystems affect pretty much everything on this planet, so there is plenty of room for a random event. And they couple so many dimensions, including time and space, and across their scales, it seems this is a textbook recipe for instability.