Resiliency matters, and you should work to build it. It makes us more receptive to creativity [1, 2] with higher life quality [3] and faster recovery times [4]. A resiliency coach suggested four strategies for building resilience, based on experience and some literature.
1. Practice Mindfulness. It is important to identify and stop rumination before it spirals out of control. Rumination is a mind-killer. By being able to recognize and stop rumination, we can see our options in the moment more clearly. 2. Build Self-compassion. We can be more resilient if we have the ability to forgive our own mistakes [5]. Resilient people are able to offer support to themselves. Additionally, we may make more clear updates to our map if we can think objectively about mistakes. 3. Develop high-quality social connections. A strong support network can help you rebound when you can't do it yourself. High quality social connections are an indicator of life satisfaction [6, 7]. 4. Positive-weight your map. Humans tend to weigh negative experiences more heavily [8]. Recognize this bias and re-calibrate the map accordingly. Prioritizing positivity may help with resilience [9]. Strategies include practicing gratitude, journaling, and mindfulness sessions with the goal of noticing positive moments.
References
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[3] W. W. S. Mak, I. S. W. Ng, and C. C. Y. Wong, “Resilience: enhancing well-being through the positive cognitive triad,” J Couns Psychol, vol. 58, no. 4, pp. 610–617, Oct. 2011, doi: 10.1037/a0025195
[4] M. M. Tugade, B. L. Fredrickson, and L. F. Barrett, “Psychological resilience and positive emotional granularity: examining the benefits of positive emotions on coping and health,” J Pers, vol. 72, no. 6, pp. 1161–1190, Dec. 2004, doi: 10.1111/j.1467-6494.2004.00294.x
[5] K. Neff, “The Self-Compassion Scale is a Valid and Theoretically Coherent Measure of Self-Compassion,” Mindfulness, vol. 7, Feb. 2016, doi: 10.1007/s12671-015-0479-3
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Resiliency matters, and you should work to build it. It makes us more receptive to creativity [1, 2] with higher life quality [3] and faster recovery times [4]. A resiliency coach suggested four strategies for building resilience, based on experience and some literature.
1. Practice Mindfulness. It is important to identify and stop rumination before it spirals out of control. Rumination is a mind-killer. By being able to recognize and stop rumination, we can see our options in the moment more clearly.
2. Build Self-compassion. We can be more resilient if we have the ability to forgive our own mistakes [5]. Resilient people are able to offer support to themselves. Additionally, we may make more clear updates to our map if we can think objectively about mistakes.
3. Develop high-quality social connections. A strong support network can help you rebound when you can't do it yourself. High quality social connections are an indicator of life satisfaction [6, 7].
4. Positive-weight your map. Humans tend to weigh negative experiences more heavily [8]. Recognize this bias and re-calibrate the map accordingly. Prioritizing positivity may help with resilience [9]. Strategies include practicing gratitude, journaling, and mindfulness sessions with the goal of noticing positive moments.