As a self-identified Alice, I felt very validated by this post, so thank you. It helps fill in my model of why I have often ended up in conflict in high-importance situations with people.
Something I'm missing here (not that I would've expected you to write it, just missing in the sense of "I wish I could have this") is what the Alices can do. A large problem of being on the Alice side of things is that there is very little feedback on what effective behaviour is. As the post mentioned, the opposing party does sometimes change their mind, albeit often much... (read more)
As a self-identified Alice, I felt very validated by this post, so thank you. It helps fill in my model of why I have often ended up in conflict in high-importance situations with people.
Something I'm missing here (not that I would've expected you to write it, just missing in the sense of "I wish I could have this") is what the Alices can do. A large problem of being on the Alice side of things is that there is very little feedback on what effective behaviour is. As the post mentioned, the opposing party does sometimes change their mind, albeit often much... (read more)