I think suspending moral agency is the wrong move. You say that not suspending it invites feelings of disappointment and disgust. I think those feelings are where you’ll gain the most by challenging. Why those feelings and not others?
I used to have issues doing chores; for example, I would regularly let my laundry pile up on the floor while my hamper sat next to the dryer full of all of the clean clothes I didn’t want to hang. It took me many years to overcome this, and for most of it I wasn’t trying to. At the time, it felt like quite the large nail in my...
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