The title is partially not true because how you act will definitely show your image and people will judge it with common sense, but the other part is only up to them to decide the impact of your actions which makes it already terrifying in a way of not knowing what something really is. World is a scary place with full of unknown threats and uncertain futures and when even your actions are uncertain it is really depressing for me.

Do me a favor and please imagine this. What do you think you would value more? A help in a troubling days or a help in a easy times? Of course you would choose the first one. And what if the effort of those helps are equally challenging for the helper's side? Still the first one is more valuable to you simply because you need it.

So the impact of my effort can differ greatly on your conditions. And those conditions could be anything. It could be because they were feeling little bit silly at the time or something was just annoying them for a while. Those conditions create a crack in the facade we put up front in order to hide our vulnerability. And since the conditions can be anything it is really hard to predict when or where these cracks would appear.

Sometimes people don't have a lot of cracks but only few deep ones, some people may have a lot, it really is out of your control.

Everyone gets into hard situations eventually mentally if not physically or materially then you will help them as a friend and then they will truly appreciate your company, your persistence and recognize your value. But isn't that just same as waiting for the crack to appear? or do you not want you to be valued higher?

Antidote: is you don't want to be wanting to be valued higher. Because everything is random and if it were not like this then things would be very boring. If everyone's effort was valued in a fair and standard way then you would start to take it as an obligation. People are not a objects or a reward for your effort that you grind. So just keep going and take the treatments you get with appreciation.

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