throwaway_aisafety_researcher

Is it actually true that Eliezer likes hurting people in bed? I think I recall reading something from him where he claims that orgasm denial is a central example of what he's into, which sounds spiritually different to me.

I don't think it's clear on longtermist grounds. Some possibilities:

• If you think that the amount of resources used on mundane human welfare post-singualarity is constant, then adding the Zambian child to the population leads to a slight decrease in the lifespan of the rest of the population, so it's zero-sum.
• If you think that the amount of resources scales with population, then the child takes resources from the pool of resources which will be spent on stuff that isn't mundane human welfare, so it might reduce the amount of Hedonium (if you care about that

People who have a very strong "will-to-Goodness" don't necessarily have very strong/extreme shadows, but often do, because they created the very strong will-to-Goodness by strongly suppressing their antisocial desires, which then strongly polarized those desires.

How much data do you have about people with a very strong "will-to-Goodness" having strong shadows? It doesn't match my anecdata, and I find it more plausible on priors that most people with strong "will-to-Goodness" tend to not have had e.g. childhoods that taught them the world was zero-sum, and/... (read more)

I think it's useful to distinguish between dominance in the "taking control" sense and the sadistic sense. They seem correlated but are separable in principle. (I have the former, just not the latter.)

I'd guess that Richard was also mostly replying to the aspects of dominance that are conceptually closer to sadism.

That I'm not very green. I want to take an active role in shaping the world.

(I'm a regular poster/commenter on LW; I don't feel comfortable saying this under my real name for various reasons.)

I'm horrified by the fact that some men have sexual kinks like the ones that John describes having. My (m/ hetero/experienced) own sexuality is well-described as a reflection of my identity and values: I'm moderately but not extremely dominant,^[1] mostly playful and passionate, and want everyone to have a great time. 

My attitude towards John has moved from skepticism to distrust. I wonder if I'll learn that people can be deeply good... (read more)