This whole post really resonated with me. The way in which you invite criticism seems like an excellent way to find hidden flaws, or confirm or deny theories about weak points.
I also try to invite criticism but it's very difficult. Similar to how you mentioned:
" One way of getting better criticism is to come up with a list of things you think you might be doing wrong, then ask specifically about them. This both credibly signals that you’re actually interested in criticism, and also communicates that that topic isn’t one of your weak points. "
I often bring up something I fear I'm doing wrong in casual conversation and explain the steps that... (read more)
This whole post really resonated with me. The way in which you invite criticism seems like an excellent way to find hidden flaws, or confirm or deny theories about weak points.
I also try to invite criticism but it's very difficult. Similar to how you mentioned:
I often bring up something I fear I'm doing wrong in casual conversation and explain the steps that... (read more)