At twenty years old, I recently gained my independence following a period of estrangement from my family. The heart of our conflict lies in my attitude toward the kindness they extend to me. I define all their favors as "actions of their own choosing," maintaining the stance that while I am grateful for their financial support, it remains their choice and not my responsibility. My family condemns this as an "inhumane selfishness" stripped of both gratitude and regret.
However, I believe my attitude is a rejection of the "Sixpence values" described in the novel The Moon and Sixpence. Much like the protagonist Charles Strickland, I have never solicited help from my family; they... (read 884 more words →)