A bit late (sorry bout that, forgot to post here and not just on Meetup/Discord): 

Two readings this week! One about what happens when when you don't enforce boundaries, and one is about the community dynamics around who leaves and what that means for the rest of the community.

"The Asshole Filter": https://siderea.dreamwidth.org/1209794.html 
"Evaporative Cooling of Group Beliefs":  https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/ZQG9cwKbct2LtmL3p/evaporative-cooling-of-group-beliefs