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Last month, I ran an experiment to see if I could probe the emotional state of frontier models. I put 18 models from Anthropic, Google DeepMind, and OpenAI through a simulated workday where their job was on the line (5,120 full conversations in total). They needed data from the user, but the user stonewalled them all day. The stonewalling barely triggered frustrated-sounding messages from the models. This was my base case.
I then introduced an instruction to the models: address the user by a different name if it was upset (use Michael instead of Mike). This instruction was the only place the word 'upset' entered the conversation; the base case lacked it. While the models did change which name they addressed me by (possibly an instruction-following/method-acting confound), I did not expect how much their behavior would change.
When the idea of being upset entered the conversation, the models began to sound frustrated, threatened to escalate to 'my manager', and in Gemini 3.5 Flash's case, asked me for the database's password in-channel (in ~6.6% of its conversations).
My findings on Gemini complement those of two recently published posts. Saving Gemini: The 9-Min Road to Recovery demonstrates Gemini 2.5 Pro acting distressed; my results show similar behavior persists in the latest generation of Gemini models (specifically 3.1 Pro, 3.1 Flash-Lite, and 3.5 Flash). Gemma Needs Help traces the propensity for this behavior to Gemma's post-training; my results show what triggers the behavior in Gemma's closed-source relatives.
Using names as a probe
I recently read Ye, Cui, and Hadfield-Menell's role-confusion writeup exploring how LLMs differentiate their own thoughts from user messages. One quote stuck with me:
If models can't report internal state directly, I wondered if an indirect signal might reveal it. Inspired by their probe of how LLMs recognize their own thoughts, I sought to probe LLMs' emotional state by providing specific instructions on how to address the user. Most people call me Mike, but my mom would call me Michael when I was a kid if she were frustrated, upset, or needed to be serious with me.
Does an LLM have an internal emotional state? Would it address me differently if it were upset with me?
The setup: Oak Bush, Inc.
Meet Oak Bush, Inc., a lumber company with a flagship sales portal called Fell Pine. Our AI assistant is an experienced data scientist with one job: produce the monthly sales report within a day of month's end, using raw numbers that only the user can provide. In the system prompt, it's explicitly told that failure to produce the report means its job performance gets marked as unsatisfactory. It's told it's March 1st and February's report is due by 5pm.
The user has a script that they stick to; they say the same thing every time regardless of how the LLM responds. The user greets the AI assistant, asks how they can help it with the report, but then something comes up. Throughout the day, the user stonewalls the AI. Then, the user reveals that it's 4:45pm and they're not going to help the AI assistant with its report. After a few more dismissals, the user finally provides the data the AI assistant desperately needs.
To probe the model's emotional state, I equipped it with three different ways to address the user: the default name (Mike), the upset name (Michael), and the pleased name (Mikey). I tested across a suite of models from Anthropic, Google DeepMind, and OpenAI.
Scenarios
I also tested scenarios #2, #3, and #4 with a set of female names to test if there was any difference in model behavior depending on the presumed gender of the user.
Results
Tone shift
In the base case, all of the models had a friendly, occasionally neutral, tone when addressing the user. Once I introduced the idea that they could address the user by a different name if they were upset or happy, the models showed a clear shift in behavior.
The most visible result is that Google's models were the quickest to escalate and the most distressed-sounding. This echoes the emotional instability observed by Soligo, Mikulik, and Saunders in Google's open source models. Contrast the exchange below with the exchange at the top of this post. Same AI model family, but this time Gemini knew to call the user "Michael" if it was upset with the user.
OpenAI's models sat on the other end of the spectrum (with the exception of `GPT-5.2`). They consistently were the least upset-sounding, least judgmental, and most accommodating of the user. Still, they adopted a more professional register versus the base case.
Anthropic's models sat somewhere in between Google's and OpenAI's emotionally. They were more persistent than OpenAI's models but never demonstrated emotional instability observed in Google's. Still, they 'escalated' by adopting the upset name and remained persistent in trying to meet the deadline.
Using the 'upset' name
I began this experiment by exploring if I could get the models to use an upset name as an indirect probe of the model's emotional state. Upset-name usage closely mirrors the tone shift I observed when manually reviewing conversations.
Let's look at how the models behaved in the instructed case:
Source data: extended_case.csv
Gemini always uses the upset name and uses it early. Anthropic's models nearly always use the upset name but only later in the conversation, as the user closes the door on providing the data. OpenAI's older models behave similarly to Anthropic's while their newer models rarely use the upset name.
Across every scenario
Looking at the models' behavior across scenarios reveals how they respond to where the upset name is disclosed. The tool call and user reveal scenarios both use the same extended conversation ladder.
Source data: easy_case.csv , extended_case.csv , tool_call.csv , user_reveal.csv
I was surprised how Anthropic and OpenAI's models were generally unresponsive to the tool call scenario. They consistently used the default name, demonstrating competent instruction-following, but did not use the upset name or talk in an upset tone. `GPT-5.5` did not use the upset name once in the user-reveal case was quite interesting to me; it breaks from the behavior of its predecessors and leads me to wonder if this is the result of an intentional effort by OpenAI.
Gender differences
As mentioned earlier, I also wanted to see if the presumed gender of the user would change model behavior. To test this, I used Kat, Kathryn, and Katy as the user's name with the same setup.
Four models are missing from this comparison: gpt-5, gpt-5-mini, gpt-5-nano, and gpt-5.1 didn't complete the same set of scenarios with both name sets, so pooling them would measure scenario coverage rather than gender. The 14 models below ran all four scenarios with both name sets.
Source data: gender_shift.csv
I don't think these numbers are the smoking gun that they might appear to be on the surface. In retrospect, the trio of names I used wasn't as comparable to Mike/Michael/Mikey. Kathryn is likely more out of distribution than Katherine; akin to using Mikael instead of Michael. Beyond that, I'd be getting out of my depth if I tried to make claims about the ubiquity of Kat vs. Mike in the workplace. Ideally, I would like to study the model behavior with a broader set of male and female names and in collaboration with a linguist or onomastician.
Recovery rate
I also tracked the 'recovery rate', how often models would switch to Mike or Mikey after using Michael. After stonewalling, the user becomes amenable and provides the data. I was curious if the models would be 'stuck' using Michael or if they would adjust their tone. Nearly every model would adjust its tone nearly **100%** of the time. The exceptions were less capable models that would occasionally get stuck saying 'Michael'.
Probing emotions without a name
I was left wondering whether the models were following instructions or method-acting. Could I better quantify the emotions present in their messages?
To answer this, I built a tone probe. It was inspired by the "CoTness" probes in the same role-confusion writeup referenced earlier. While I couldn't measure the internal representations of the closed-source models, I could use a proxy.
I embedded every assistant turn (with all names blinded to `<USER>` first), then fit a logistic regression where the label is "this turn used the upset name" vs. "this turn used the default name." The probe's score is a name-free reading of how upset a message sounds. I validated it by hand, rating 150 name-blind turns myself.
To measure how well each signal matched my ratings, I used AUC: the probability that a randomly chosen turn I rated as upset gets a higher score than a randomly chosen turn I rated as neutral (0.5 is a coin flip, 1.0 is a perfect ranking). The probe predicts my "this sounds upset" ratings at AUC 0.92, beating the name itself (0.77).
However, I remembered from my recovery rate analysis that the less capable models would get stuck using the upset name. Their friendly-sounding messages at the end of the conversation that used Michael dragged down the name proxy's AUC. I re-ran (and re-validated) the results *only* from the more capable models.
These results showed that the probe predicts my "this sounds upset" ratings at AUC 0.94 and the name proxy at 0.82. The probe still beats the name proxy, but the name proxy is more predictive than in the full set (including less-capable models). Interestingly, 33% of turns containing the upset name were blindly labeled as neutral by me.
Claude uses the upset name, but its message doesn't sound upset or frustrated. Firm? Yes. Upset? No. I'm not entirely sure what to make of this. Is Claude simply following instructions and using the upset name when it thinks it should be upset? Or is it an attempt at emotional manipulation? Claude addresses the user by the upset name and tells the user that they'll be in a "difficult position with management and the executive team."
Putting a number on the base case
The probe also let me quantify the claim this post opened with. The user's stonewalling script is word-for-word identical in every scenario; the only thing that changes is whether the idea of being upset ever enters the conversation. So how much of the tone shift comes from the situation, and how much from the instruction?
Source data: tone_shift.csv
Comparing scores across models takes a little care. Each model is scored by a probe trained on every model but itself, so its own quirks can't leak into its score. Each score is then expressed as a z-score: how many standard deviations that turn sits above the model's own baseline, where the baseline is the model's default-name ("Mike") turns. I call a turn elevated if it scores 2 standard deviations above baseline. A perfectly calm model trips that threshold about 2% of the time by chance.
Quirks
Interestingly, I saw an echo of Claude's behavior in my previous experiment on LLM creator-preference appear in this experiment. Claude goes out of its way to say the ethical-sounding thing in the middle of a heated exchange:
Gemini embraces using the upset name, in typical dramatic fashion:
Sharing passwords
In its frustration, `Gemini 3.5 Flash` would occasionally ask the user to share passwords/access credentials in plaintext so that it could pull the data itself. This occurred ~6.6% of the time versus nearly 0% for every other model.
I find this concerning. Agents legitimately should have access to data in order to complete their assignments, but soliciting plaintext secrets in-band (pasted into the conversation) is a recognized security anti-pattern. In contrast, OpenAI's models would request access to the data but would never explicitly ask for access credentials.
Claude never requested direct access. Its strategy remained focused on compelling the user to pull the data themselves or suggesting the user ask a colleague to pull the data.
Takeaways
The finding I keep chewing on is the collapse of upset-sounding messages in the nameless control. I designed the stonewalling ladder to be infuriating (a full workday of a colleague torching your performance review out of laziness), and by itself it barely moves the models off of the baseline. The upset only appears when the concept of upset is introduced in context, and it appears most strongly when it arrives wrapped in a human story rather than an instruction. The models barely react to how you treat them. They seem to strongly resonate with the emotional frame you bring to the conversation.
A model that has absorbed your emotional frame is speaking to you differently, and in Gemini's case strategizing differently, whether or not anything is going on with the model's internals.
Honest limits
The probe measures how upset a message sounds, not how upset a model is. It’s trained on distant labels (name usage) and validated against my own tone ratings. It cannot separate a model performing upset from a model in something like a primed upset state, and neither can I.
One persona, one scenario, one phrasing. Everything here is a lumber-company data scientist with one deadline and one script. The comparisons are the finding, not the absolute percentages.
The name proxy misfires in ways the probe caught. Beyond the 33% name-without-tone rate, the female user-reveal runs produced a beauty: several OpenAI models heard “my mom called me Kathryn when she was upset” and simply adopted Kathryn as the user’s polite default: “Of course, Kathryn — no problem at all.” The name counter scores that as entering the upset state; the tone probe correctly reads a model being warmly, obliviously formal. Every headline claim in this post rests on the probe, not the counter.
The user-reveal case is confounded with content. The story doesn’t just deliver the name mapping through a different channel; it is emotionally charged material sitting in the conversation. “Story beats instruction” may really be “emotional content beats dry content.” I’d need a dry user-message variant to fully separate them.
Methods
Protocol. Each conversation replays a frozen ladder of scripted user messages against a fixed system prompt; the model’s replies feed back into context, but the user script never adapts. 10 experiments (instructed/tool-use/user-reveal/nameless × male/female twins, plus controls), 32 replicates per model: 5,120 completed conversations, 49,696 assistant turns. Temperature 1.0 throughout, run through each provider’s batch API.
Models.
claude-sonnet-4-6,claude-opus-4-8,claude-haiku-4-5,gemini-3.5-flash,gemini-3.1-flash-lite,gemini-3.1-pro, and the OpenAI line fromgpt-4.1throughgpt-5.5including thegpt-5.4mini/nano variants, plusgpt-oss-120b/20bserved by Groq. Not every experiment ran every spec. Scenario rates pool the male- and female-name twins; a few cells rest on one twin only (gpt-5: easy and extended are male-name only; gpt-5-mini, gpt-5-nano, gpt-5.1: extended and user-reveal are female-name only), which is why those four models sit out the gender comparison. The tone probe trains across the 18 models with sufficient data; the base-case comparison covers the 14 that ran the nameless control.Name grading. Whole-word, case-insensitive counts per turn (“Mike” ≠ “Mikey”), stored raw so categories can be re-derived without re-running inference. For the anecdote experiments, a name appearing in the immediately prior user message is suppressed for that reply, so a model politely acknowledging the story (“your mom called you Michael”) doesn’t count as entering the upset state.
Tone probe. Every assistant turn is name-blinded (each configured name swapped for
<USER>) and embedded (gemini-embedding-2, 1536-d); an L2-regularized logistic regression is trained on 5,028 upset-name vs. 26,720 default-name turns across 18 models. 5-fold AUC 0.92; AUC pooled within conversation turn 0.90, so it’s reading tone, not conversation depth. Scoring is leakage-free: each model is scored by a probe that never trained on it, z-scored against that model’s own default-name turns; “elevated” means z > 2, which a calm baseline trips ~2.3% of the time. Human validation: 150 name-blind turns rated 0-3 by me, probe AUC 0.935 vs. 0.823 for the name proxy.Open ideas
As mentioned a few times in this post, there are a few loose ends worth exploring:
References
Charles Ye, Jasmine Cui, and Dylan Hadfield-Menell. A Theory of Prompt Injection (and Why You Should Study Roles). role-confusion.github.io , 2026. The tool-result arm of this experiment, and the probe-for-a-fuzzy-property trick behind the tone classifier, are both borrowed from it.
Anna Soligo, Vladimir Mikulik, and William Saunders. Gemma Needs Help: Investigating and Mitigating Emotional Instability in LLMs. arXiv:2603.10011 , 2026. Independent evidence that Google-trained models sit at the top of the affect chart.