It appears from this post that the ban was itself based on a misunderstanding of my final comment. Nowhere in my comment did I say anything resembling "Anyway, let's talk about how Y is not true." with Y being "People should have been deferring to Yudkowsky as much as they did."
What I actually did was acknowledge my misunderstanding and then propose a new, related topic I thought might be interesting: the actual root causes of the deference. This was an invitation to a different conversation, which Tsvi was free to ignore.
There is no plausible interpretation of my comment as a refusal to drop the original point. The idea that I was stuck on a hobby horse that could only be stopped by a ban is directly contradicted by the text of the comment itself:
Ok, it looks like part of my motivation for going down this line of thought was based on a misunderstanding. But to be fair, in this post after you asked "What should we have done instead?" with regard to deferring to Eliezer, you didn't clearly say "we should have not deferred or deferred less", but instead wrote "We don't have to stop deferring, to avoid this correlated failure. We just have to say that we're deferring." Given that this is a case where many people could have and should have not deferred, this just seems like a bad example to illustrate "given that to some extent at the end of the day we do have to defer on many things, what can we do to alleviate some of those problems?", leading to the kind of confusion I had.
Also, another part of my motivation is still valid and I think it would be interesting to try to answer why didn't you (and others) just not defer? Not in a rhetorical sense, but what actually caused this? Was it age as you hinted earlier? Was it just human nature to want to defer to someone? Was it that you were being paid by an organization that Eliezer founded and had very strong influence over? Etc.? And also why didn't you (and others) notice Eliezer's strategic mistakes, if that has a different or additional answer?
I think there are other significant misrepresentations in his "gloss" of the thread, that I won't go into. This episode has given me quite a large aversion around engaging with Tsvi, which will inform my future participation on LW.
Thank you. IDK if it's closer, it's still quite incorrect, but I greatly appreciate the effort.
[Edit: Just to state this: I think Dai was coming from good intentions, e.g. to think about important and interesting things. On reflection: I stand by something being unhelpful about the behavior pattern that I'm claiming I have engaged in, that you have engaged in, and that I claim Dai has engaged in; but also, I don't think it's some egregious transgression; I think I overreacted and I would like figure out how to handle discussion more gracefully and non-anta... (read more)
Crosspost from my blog.
[Epistemic status: !! 🚨 Drama Alert 🚨 !! discoursepoasting, LWslop]
Case 1: You only get six words
In 2024, the MATS team published a post, originally titled "Talent Needs in Technical AI Safety".
I, a hero, made this comment and elaborated in the ensuing comment thread. The content isn't so important here—basically, I was objecting to a certain framing in the post, which tied into a general issue I had with the broader landscape of people nominally working on decreasing AGI X-risk.
Now, I have not actually read this post. (I kinda skimmed it and read parts.) So I don't actually know what's in it. The post's description of itself, from the introduction:
Well, that sounds like a lot of work, and I believe that they definitely did write about several ideas coming from that work. My comment was not about any of that—which makes sense, given that I didn't read the post—but that did not stop my comment from being the second highest-upvoted comment, and dominating the discussion on that forum.
Is this bad? My comment was fine; I made an important remark, wasn't super disrespectful, clarified that I was talking about a broader phenomenon in the community... And yet, from another perspective, what happened is:
[There might be worse examples of me doing this Pattern, but I didn't immediately find them in the first page or two of my top-voted comments.]
Case 2: Trees may be cool but how should concepts work in general??
When eukaryote wrote a very nice post about trees ("There’s no such thing as a tree (phylogenetically)"), Zack_M_Davis had a reply. Follow that link if you want to read the whole thread (not very long). But I'll give an abstracted (and maybe somewhat unfair) paraphrase:
Then eukaryote
claps back and DESTROYS Zack with CLEAR CALM EXPLANATION of why his interaction was KINDA NOT GREAT!!gives a discourse-level response, which I'll quote here almost in full (bolding mine):[Note: Zack was the first association in my head to this pattern—so I was slightly surprised to find that it took a bit of effort to find an example. Some of his other top-voted comments are similarly confrontational, but do not exhibit The Pattern. E.g. here he does something superficially similar—but, even though it's technically off-topic it's close enough, and also he explicitly signposts the slightly-off-topicness, and also it's a useful comment, and I think its main argument doesn't misunderstand anything from the original post. Also Zack apologized to eukaryote. Maybe there are other examples I didn't quickly find.]
Case 3: The Bannination
I wrote a post ("The problem of graceful deference"). Wei Dai made a comment with an ensuing thread. You can read it there; I'll again provide an abstracted gloss (which is not trying to be a comprehensive summary [ETA: Wei states here that "I think it's a significant misrepresentation of my words (that makes me appear more unreasonable than I was)", which I don't agree with.]):
I think this is another clear example of The Pattern. (If you're trying to interpret the full thread: X is "Yudkowsky is the best strategic thinker on AGI X-risk." and Y is something like "People should have been deferring to Yudkowsky as much as they did.".)
[Note: I'm unbanning Wei Dai from commenting on my posts so that he can respond here if he wants. By default I won't reban him. I prefer and would like to support open discourse within a community. But I reserve the normative right to block trolling.]
The Pattern
So what is this pattern? I'd call it The Charge of Hobby Horse. It's where you ride your hobby horse into battle in the comments, crashing through obstacles such as "the author did not even disagree with me, so there's nothing to actually have a battle about". A bit more explicitly:
This comes off as misinterpretation; especially, "mistakenly" reading in a bunch of disagreement that isn't there. But really it's disinterpretation: You're searching for something to argue with, so you can talk about your thing. You're not trying to understand what the author actually thinks, so communication becomes difficult.
Conclusion
Mainly I just want to describe this behavior pattern. And also ask: Please don't fabricate fights just so you get to talk about your thing! That's pretty rude!
It's a bit tough because there are a lot of comments that look kinda similar to a Charging Hobby Horse, but that are good. It's fine to make corrections. It's fine to request for the author to give opinions. It's fine and good to use someone's post as a way of discussing some amorphous diaphanous distributed social pattern that is otherwise hard to point at.
It's fine to say things that are kinda off-topic, though it helps to acknowledge you're doing that. I would say it's even fine to comment on a post that you have not fully read, as long as you say you're doing that. If you're responding to The Broader Discourse, Not This Post Specifically™, then it would be nice to say you're doing that. Also, unless you're pretty sure what the author thinks, it's always good to quickly restate what you think they think, in a sentence or two.
And remember, you always have the option to write about your hobby horse in your own post or other forum. If it is actually relevant to the original post that got you wanting to rant a little, you can link to your separate write-up in a comment on that original post.
Anyway, thanks for your attention on this very something matter.