So what is this pattern? I'd call it The Charge of Hobby Horse. It's where you ride your hobby horse into battle in the comments, crashing through obstacles such as "the author did not even disagree with me, so there's nothing to actually have a battle about".
Yeah, I'd noticed that impulse in myself before. I'm consciously on the lookout for it, but it's definitely disappointing to run into something that seems like an opportunity to have an argument about your pet topic, only to realize that that opportunity is a mirage.
Can you please remove the example involving me, or anonymize it and make it a hypothetical example? I think it's a significant misrepresentation of my words (that makes me appear more unreasonable than I was), but don't have the time/energy/interest to debate you to try to get it corrected.
I don't think I should, I think it's better to talk about it. I added a link to your comment before my gloss.
[Epistemic status: !! 🚨 Drama Alert 🚨 !! discoursepoasting, LWslop]

In 2024, the MATS team published a post, originally titled "Talent Needs in Technical AI Safety".
I, a hero, made this comment and elaborated in the ensuing comment thread. The content isn't so important here—basically, I was objecting to a certain framing in the post, which tied into a general issue I had with the broader landscape of people nominally working on decreasing AGI X-risk.
Now, I have not actually read this post. (I kinda skimmed it and read parts.) So I don't actually know what's in it. The post's description of itself, from the introduction:
In the winter and spring of 2024, we conducted 31 interviews, ranging in length from 30 to 120 minutes, with key figures in AI safety, including senior researchers, organization leaders, social scientists, strategists, funders, and policy experts. This report synthesizes the key insights from these discussions.
Well, that sounds like a lot of work, and I believe that they definitely did write about several ideas coming from that work. My comment was not about any of that—which makes sense, given that I didn't read the post—but that did not stop my comment from being the second highest-upvoted comment, and dominating the discussion on that forum.
Is this bad? My comment was fine; I made an important remark, wasn't super disrespectful, clarified that I was talking about a broader phenomenon in the community... And yet, from another perspective, what happened is:
[There might be worse examples of me doing this Pattern, but I didn't immediately find them in the first page or two of my top-voted comments.]
When eukaryote wrote a very nice post about trees ("There’s no such thing as a tree (phylogenetically)"), Zack_M_Davis had a reply. Follow that link if you want to read the whole thread (not very long). But I'll give an abstracted (and maybe somewhat unfair) paraphrase:
Then eukaryote claps back and DESTROYS Zack with CLEAR CALM EXPLANATION of why his interaction was KINDA NOT GREAT!! gives a discourse-level response, which I'll quote here almost in full (bolding mine):
I don't love this thread - your first comment reads like you're correcting me on something or saying I got something important philosophically wrong, and then you just expand on part of what I wrote with fancier language. The actual "correction", if there is one, is down the thread and about a single word used in a minor part of the article, which, by your own findings, I am using in a common way and you are using in an idiosyncratic way. ...It seems like a shoehorn for your pet philosophical stance. [...]
To be clear, the expansion was in fact good, it's the unsupported framing as a correction that I take issue with. This wouldn't normally bother me enough to remark on, but it's by far the top-rated comment, and you know everyone loves a first-comment correction, so I thought I should put it out there.
[Note: Zack was the first association in my head to this pattern—so I was slightly surprised to find that it took a bit of effort to find an example. Some of his other top-voted comments are similarly confrontational, but do not exhibit The Pattern. E.g. here he does something superficially similar—but, even though it's technically off-topic it's close enough, and also he explicitly signposts the slightly-off-topicness, and also it's a useful comment, and I think its main argument doesn't misunderstand anything from the original post. Also Zack apologized to eukaryote. Maybe there are other examples I didn't quickly find.]
I wrote a post ("The problem of graceful deference"). Wei Dai made a comment with an ensuing thread. You can read it there; I'll again provide an abstracted gloss (which is not trying to be a comprehensive summary [ETA: Wei states here that "I think it's a significant misrepresentation of my words (that makes me appear more unreasonable than I was)", which I don't agree with.]):
I think this is another clear example of The Pattern. (If you're trying to interpret the full thread: X is "Yudkowsky is the best strategic thinker on AGI X-risk." and Y is something like "People should have been deferring to Yudkowsky as much as they did.".)
[Note: I'm unbanning Wei Dai from commenting on my posts so that he can respond here if he wants. By default I won't reban him. I prefer and would like to support open discourse within a community. But I reserve the normative right to block trolling.]
So what is this pattern? I'd call it The Charge of Hobby Horse. It's where you ride your hobby horse into battle in the comments, crashing through obstacles such as "the author did not even disagree with me, so there's nothing to actually have a battle about". A bit more explicitly:
This comes off as misinterpretation; especially, "mistakenly" reading in a bunch of disagreement that isn't there. But really it's disinterpretation: You're searching for something to argue with, so you can talk about your thing. You're not trying to understand what the author actually thinks, so communication becomes difficult.
Mainly I just want to describe this behavior pattern. And also ask: Please don't fabricate fights just so you get to talk about your thing! That's pretty rude!
It's a bit tough because there are a lot of comments that look kinda similar to a Charging Hobby Horse, but that are good. It's fine to make corrections. It's fine to request for the author to give opinions. It's fine and good to use someone's post as a way of discussing some amorphous diaphanous distributed social pattern that is otherwise hard to point at.
It's fine to say things that are kinda off-topic, though it helps to acknowledge you're doing that. I would say it's even fine to comment on a post that you have not fully read, as long as you say you're doing that. If you're responding to The Broader Discourse, Not This Post Specifically™, then it would be nice to say you're doing that. Also, unless you're pretty sure what the author thinks, it's always good to quickly restate what you think they think, in a sentence or two.
And remember, you always have the option to write about your hobby horse in your own post or other forum. If it is actually relevant to the original post that got you wanting to rant a little, you can link to your separate write-up in a comment on that original post.
Anyway, thanks for your attention on this very something matter.