For people with psychopathic or narcissistic traits. I’m not here to moralize or to tell you you’re broken. I think that factory farming is an abomination akin to slavery but at a massively greater scale and that the cuts to USAID are crimes against humanity worse than many wars. Most people are oblivious to that or contribute to it. The median serial killer vanishes in the statistical noise among the horrors of this world. Many of my psychopathic friends are actually doing better than average despite their traits, or perhaps precisely thanks to what they had to learn to make these traits work for them. If they donate $100 to an ACE top charity, they’re suddenly among the crème de la crème of the least harmful humans alive.
So if that fucked-up ne’er-do-well that’s the median person deserves my honesty and respect, so do you.
Amazing passage; don't actually know any details about Psychopathy-empirics but in general still couldn't agree more.
I think that factory farming is an abomination akin to slavery but at a massively greater scale and that the cuts to USAID are crimes against humanity worse than many wars.
Voted down. Articles are not for throwing in highly inflammatory claims that are a complete aside to your main claims but which you just assume are true.
Why we need a new framework for understanding psychopathy, narcissism, and related presentations.
This is the first article in a series on understanding psychopathy and related presentations. The series is written for three audiences: people with psychopathic or narcissistic traits who want to understand themselves better, clinicians and researchers who want a more integrated framework, and curious laypeople who want to move beyond stereotypes.
Introduction
I’ve spent about a year trying to understand psychopathy – not just from textbooks, but from friendships. Some of my friends score high on the Psychopathy Checklist Revised (PCL-R), and through countless conversations, I’ve come to see that “psychopathy” is not one thing but many things hiding under a single label.
This creates problems. When researchers study “psychopathy,” they may be studying completely different populations. When clinicians treat “psychopathy,” they may be applying the same approach to people who need very different interventions. And when people try to understand themselves, they may find that the label fits in some ways but not others – leaving them more confused than before.
This series proposes a new framework: A multi-level taxonomy that distinguishes what you were born with, what your brain looks like now, what happened to you developmentally, what psychological structures you developed, how you behave, and how you understand your own agency. These are different lenses on the same phenomenon – and using all of them gives us a much richer picture than any single lens alone.
The Naming Problem
The word “psychopathy” is used to describe at least four different things:
1. Genetic loading. Researchers talk about genes associated with psychopathy – variants of MAOA, the serotonin transporter gene (5-HTTLPR), oxytocin receptor genes (OXTR), and others. When they say someone is “genetically psychopathic,” they mean the person carries variants that increase risk for psychopathic traits. (For reviews of candidate genes, see Gunter et al., 2010, Viding & McCrory, 2012, De Brito et al., 2021, and Frazier et al., 2019.)
2. Brain patterns. Neuroscientists describe psychopathy in terms of brain structure and function – a smaller or less reactive amygdala, reduced activity in the insula, altered connectivity between prefrontal and limbic regions. When they say someone is “neurologically psychopathic,” they mean the person’s brain shows these patterns. (See Fallon, 2013, Tyler et al., 2019, Frazier et al., 2019, for comprehensive reviews.)
3. Psychological structure. Psychodynamic clinicians describe psychopathy in terms of self-structure and relational patterns – an absent or fragmented sense of self, instrumental orientation toward others, absence of guilt or remorse, preoccupation with power or control. When they say someone is “psychodynamically psychopathic,” they mean the person has these internal structures. (See McWilliams, 2011, for a summary chapter and literature recommendations.)
4. Behavior. The PCL-R and similar instruments measure psychopathy through observable behaviors and self-reported traits – manipulation, callousness, impulsivity, criminal versatility. When they say someone is “behaviorally psychopathic,” they mean the person shows these patterns. (The PCL-R is described in Hare, 2008.)
Here’s the problem: These four things don’t always go together.
Someone can have genetic loading for psychopathy but, raised in a supportive environment, never develop the brain patterns or behavioral expression. Someone can develop psychopathic brain patterns through chronic trauma and dissociation, without any particular genetic predisposition. Someone can score high on the PCL-R through learned behavior, while having relatively intact empathic capacity that they’ve learned to suppress. And someone can have all the neurological and psychological features of psychopathy while never engaging in criminal behavior.
Using one word for all of these creates confusion. It leads researchers to treat heterogeneous groups as homogeneous. It leads clinicians to apply one-size-fits-all treatments. And it leads individuals to misunderstand themselves – either over-identifying with a label that only partially fits, or rejecting a label that captures something important about their experience.
The Heterogeneity Problem
Even within each level of description, there are important subtypes.
At the Genetic Level
Different genetic variants may produce different phenotypes:
At the Neurological Level
The classic finding is hypoactivity in the amygdala and related structures – reduced fear conditioning, poor threat recognition, blunted emotional response. But there’s also:
At the Psychodynamic Level
The internal world of psychopathy varies enormously:
At the Behavioral Level
The PCL-R distinguishes two factors:
Some individuals are high on Factor 1 but low on Factor 2 – they’re manipulative and callous but not impulsive or reckless. Others show the reverse pattern. Still others are high on both. These are different presentations with different trajectories and different needs.
One of the most useful models in my opinion is the Triarchic Model of Psychopathy (Patrick et al., 2009), which distinguishes three distinct dimensions:
This model is excellent because it acknowledges that “boldness” (fearless dominance) is distinct from “disinhibition” (impulsivity). A person can be bold without being disinhibited (the “successful psychopath”), or disinhibited without being bold (the “reactive” type). My framework builds on this by adding the developmental (E) and psychodynamic (D) layers that explain how these traits emerge and organize into a self.
My score of 29 puts me in the 8th percentile among women (23 on boldness, 4 on meanness, 2 on disinhibition). The overall distribution in the general population varies greatly by gender.
Another study further subdivided these three factors for better predictive results in their sample (highlights mine):
A third model is that of the Psychopathic Personality Inventory (a mock version that gives good results). It distinguishes 8 factors:
They are (with the exception of coldheartedness) sometimes grouped into “fearless dominance” and “self-centered impulsivity.”
The Framework: G-N-E-D-B-A
To address these problems, I propose a multi-level framework with six dimensions:
Each individual can be described as a profile across all six dimensions. Two people who both “have psychopathy” might have completely different profiles – and understanding those differences matters for prediction, treatment, and self-understanding.
The Ordering Is (Roughly) Causal
The dimensions are ordered from most distal to most proximal:
This ordering helps us see that the same behavioral presentation (B) can arise from different developmental pathways (E) and different psychological structures (D), including different communicative failures (C), which in turn can arise from different neurological patterns (N) and genetic loadings (G). And all of this is filtered through how the person understands themselves (A).
Profiles, Not Labels
Instead of asking “Is this person a psychopath?” we can ask: “What is this person’s profile?”
For example:
These two individuals might be called “psychopathic” by different psychologists but they are fundamentally different. Understanding the difference matters for predicting their trajectories and for any treatments they may or may not attempt.
What This Series Will Cover
This series will develop the framework in detail:
Article 2: The Substrate. Genetics and neuroscience – what we know about the biological foundations of psychopathy, and how to think about primary versus secondary presentations.
Article 3: The Shaping. Environment and development – how different types of adversity lead to different outcomes, and why the same genetic loading can produce a functional person or a criminal depending on context.
Article 4: The Self. Psychodynamic structures – the different ways the psychopathic self can be organized, including the autonomy dimension and the relationship between psychopathy and narcissism (what I’ve called sovereignism).
Article 5: The Mechanics. How empathy fails – a detailed breakdown of the different ways empathy can break down, from perceptual failures to simulation failures to affective inversion. (This connects to my earlier work on the sadism spectrum.)
Article 6: The Types. Archetypal clusters – common profiles that tend to co-occur, with recognizable presentations that readers may identify with.
Article 7: The Choice. Recovery, if you want it – an honest assessment of what recovery means for different presentations and the trade-offs involved.
A Note on Tone
This series is written for three audiences, and the tone reflects that.
For people with psychopathic or narcissistic traits. I’m not here to moralize or to tell you you’re broken. I think that factory farming is an abomination akin to slavery but at a massively greater scale and that the cuts to USAID are crimes against humanity worse than many wars. Most people are oblivious to that or contribute to it. The median serial killer vanishes in the statistical noise among the horrors of this world. Many of my psychopathic friends are actually doing better than average despite their traits, or perhaps precisely thanks to what they had to learn to make these traits work for them. If they donate $100 to an ACE top charity, they’re suddenly among the crème de la crème of the least harmful humans alive.
So if that fucked-up ne’er-do-well that’s the median person deserves my honesty and respect, so do you. I’ll describe things as they are, including trade-offs that others might not acknowledge. Empathy is fun but also painful and often detrimental to moral decision-making. Regulation is stabilizing but also boring. Attachment creates meaning but also vulnerability. These are real trade-offs, and I’ll respect your intelligence enough to present them honestly.
For clinicians and researchers. I’ve tried to integrate findings from neuroscience, genetics, attachment theory, and psychodynamic thinking into a coherent framework. I’ll provide references throughout and a technical glossary. The clusters I propose are hypotheses, not established facts – but they may help organize thinking about a heterogeneous population.
For curious laypeople. I’ll explain technical concepts as I go and provide examples (real and fictional) to make abstract ideas concrete. You don’t need a psychology background to follow this series.
One thing I won’t do is pretend that all presentations are equally concerning or that change is always desirable. Some people with psychopathic traits live excellent lives and contribute enormously to society. Others feel isolated, desolate, hopeless, or cause significant harm. The framework I’m proposing is descriptive, not prescriptive – it’s about understanding, not judging.
Glossary: Key Terms for This Series
This glossary introduces terms used throughout the series. Full definitions are provided in the relevant articles.
Dimensional Levels
Key G-Level Concepts
Key N-Level Concepts
Key E-Level Concepts
Key D-Level Concepts
Key B-Level Concepts
Key A-Level Concepts
Key C-Level Concepts
Key Distinctions
Next: The Substrate
The next article explores the biological foundations of psychopathy – what genetics and neuroscience tell us about the origins of these presentations, and how to think about the critical distinction between primary and secondary forms.
Note on LLM use
This sequence is based on hundreds of hours of literature research and hundreds of hours of chats with friends with these neurodivergences and/or personality disorders, which I compiled into suitable case study composites. To my knowledge, many of the insights in it are original and valuable for insight and treatment.
The final posts I would estimate are written to 10–70% or so by Claude. After my year of research and befriending and sense-making, I discussed my models and ideas with Claude, and let Claude assist me in structuring my thoughts in a more digestible way, iron out some of my mistakes, and write it all up. I carefully edited the resulting posts, which led to more or less substantial modifications.