Lovely post. Related issues: a) whether people observe the reactions of others; b) whether people update their own actions and priors based on past experience. c) reciprocity / hypocrisy
Many do not observe / update reliably. Or they selective fail to in certain situations. If you default to a zero-echoes "ask what's on your mind" approach, but observe the world and update based on past experience, and have intrusive thoughts that when you vocalize them offend people, you might only ask someone "why is your spouse so ugly?" the first time it occurs to you, and not every time you see them.
Children demonstrate a lot of zero-echoes interactions that are considered anti-social in adults because they... (read more)
Lovely post. Related issues:
a) whether people observe the reactions of others;
b) whether people update their own actions and priors based on past experience.
c) reciprocity / hypocrisy
Many do not observe / update reliably. Or they selective fail to in certain situations.
If you default to a zero-echoes "ask what's on your mind" approach, but observe the world and update based on past experience, and have intrusive thoughts that when you vocalize them offend people, you might only ask someone "why is your spouse so ugly?" the first time it occurs to you, and not every time you see them.
Children demonstrate a lot of zero-echoes interactions that are considered anti-social in adults because they... (read more)