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It is clear that more thought I'd needed for a satisfactory answer here and I would encourage you to keep seeking a satisfactory solution.
How do I "small up vote" for "keep thinking about it".
If the site is too big it could be divided in one sections. That would effectively make it smaller.
I believe the content do far is a bit different. Worth being curious about what changed.
Yes we have less comments about day on lw2.
Great! Well done. Now you have a tool to use any time you want to check in on those mixed feelings and compare qualities of the inputs you are getting.
You can prefer one thing over another. And nvc does plenty of evaluation. You need to be able to evaluate your own needs and work out what you want to request from people.
It can be thought of as a map and territory distinction. Judgement is in the map not the territory.
So yes. My map says th...(read more)
Will pm
Posted.
I only hope that this will encourage you to reach out to each other, more than before. We need to support each other. We need to try. That's all we can do.
At the same time as wishing that more could have been done I know that many of us tried very hard.
In the course of developing emotional responsibility, most of us experience three stages:
(1) “emotional slavery”—believing ourselves responsible for the feelings of others,
(2) “the obnoxious stage”—in which we refuse to admit to caring what anyone else feels or needs, and
(3) “emotiona...(read more)
It is clear that more thought I'd needed for a satisfactory answer here and I would encourage you to keep seeking a satisfactory solution.
How do I "small up vote" for "keep thinking about it".
If the site is too big it could be divided in one sections. That would effectively make it smaller.
I believe the content do far is a bit different. Worth being curious about what changed.
Yes we have less comments about day on lw2.
Great! Well done. Now you have a tool to use any time you want to check in on those mixed feelings and compare qualities of the inputs you are getting.
You can prefer one thing over another. And nvc does plenty of evaluation. You need to be able to evaluate your own needs and work out what you want to request from people. It can be thought of as a map and territory distinction. Judgement is in the map not the territory. So yes. My map says th...(read more)
Will pm
Posted.
I only hope that this will encourage you to reach out to each other, more than before. We need to support each other. We need to try. That's all we can do.
At the same time as wishing that more could have been done I know that many of us tried very hard.
In the course of developing emotional responsibility, most of us experience three stages: (1) “emotional slavery”—believing ourselves responsible for the feelings of others, (2) “the obnoxious stage”—in which we refuse to admit to caring what anyone else feels or needs, and (3) “emotiona...(read more)