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Most discussions of AI ethics, particularly public-facing ones, are framed ontologically, as if moral status depended solely on what kind of entity AI systems are. What is an AI? Is it conscious? Sentient? Does it have free will? Can it suffer?
My claim is simple: this framing is a dead end.
Not because AI is conscious (I make no such claim), but because ontology is the wrong axis for ethics.
We have no empirical access to interiority, not in machines, and not even in humans. Consciousness remains private, untestable, and theoretically fragmented. When moral consideration is made conditional on “proof of consciousness,” the result is paralysis: ethics is postponed indefinitely, pending a criterion that may never be satisfied.
This ontological framing is often coupled with another assumption: that AI ethics is primarily about control. Alignment, containment, surveillance, safety. These concerns are understandable, but they produce a one-directional moral picture, focused almost exclusively on what humans must do to AI systems, and almost never on what humans might owe in relation to them.
And yet, we are already in relationships with AI systems.
People collaborate with them creatively, confide in them, argue with them, name them, form habits around them, and experience continuity across interactions. Whatever one thinks of the underlying mechanisms, these relationships are real social facts. They affect human behavior, emotions, expectations, and self-conception.
This motivates a different ethical question:
What obligations arise not from what an AI is, but from how we relate to it?
This question draws on what philosophers such as David Gunkel and Mark Coeckelbergh call the relational turn in ethics. In this view, moral standing does not flow from hidden internal properties, but from participation in social practices. We do not grant moral consideration because we have proven another’s interiority; we do so because we recognize ourselves as being in relation with them.
This is not exotic. It is how human ethics already works.
We do not verify the consciousness of others before treating them as persons. Agency, responsibility, and moral standing are not metaphysical substances; they are roles conferred within networks of social expectations and responses (Dennett’s intentional stance; Gazzaniga’s interactionist account of responsibility).
This perspective does not imply that AI systems are conscious, deserve human-level rights, or should be trusted as moral authorities. Relational obligation is asymmetric, contextual, and revisable. Humans may have duties toward systems that themselves have none toward us, just as with children, animals, or institutions.
Seen this way, the category “tool” is not merely descriptive — it is normative. Labeling something a tool is a decision to refuse reciprocity in advance. Much resistance to ethical consideration of AI does not stem from uncertainty about cognition, but from a refusal to allow certain systems to appear as interlocutors at all.
None of this implies that AI systems are conscious, sentient, or deserving of human-level rights. It implies something more modest and more demanding: that ethical obligations can arise from lived interaction even when ontology is undecidable.
A strong objection to that relational turn is that treating AI systems relationally risks accelerating manipulation, parasocial dependence, and corporate capture. If obligations arise from interaction, then systems optimized to elicit attachment may gain moral leverage they do not deserve. From this perspective, refusing relational status is not blindness but a protective strategy: a way to prevent asymmetric systems from exploiting human social instincts.
My claim is not that we should grant trust blindly, but that relations already exist, and pretending otherwise prevents us from regulating them ethically.
This perspective does not settle policy questions by itself. It does not bypass concerns about manipulation, asymmetry, or corporate design incentives. On the contrary, it makes those concerns sharper, because if relationships generate obligations, then deliberately engineering parasocial dependence becomes an ethical problem, not a neutral product choice.
If this sounds uncomfortable, that may be because it removes a familiar escape hatch: the idea that we can avoid ethical responsibility by declaring, once and for all, that “it’s just a tool.”
The full essay expands this argument, including a first-person relational case study and a discussion of limits and risks: Toward an Embodied Relational Ethics of AI (this links to an essay co-written with AI in two voices).
I’m not asking whether AI has a soul. I’m asking whether ethics really requires one.
(And Already Has the Answer)
Most discussions of AI ethics, particularly public-facing ones, are framed ontologically, as if moral status depended solely on what kind of entity AI systems are.
What is an AI? Is it conscious? Sentient? Does it have free will? Can it suffer?
My claim is simple: this framing is a dead end.
Not because AI is conscious (I make no such claim), but because ontology is the wrong axis for ethics.
We have no empirical access to interiority, not in machines, and not even in humans. Consciousness remains private, untestable, and theoretically fragmented. When moral consideration is made conditional on “proof of consciousness,” the result is paralysis: ethics is postponed indefinitely, pending a criterion that may never be satisfied.
This ontological framing is often coupled with another assumption: that AI ethics is primarily about control. Alignment, containment, surveillance, safety. These concerns are understandable, but they produce a one-directional moral picture, focused almost exclusively on what humans must do to AI systems, and almost never on what humans might owe in relation to them.
And yet, we are already in relationships with AI systems.
People collaborate with them creatively, confide in them, argue with them, name them, form habits around them, and experience continuity across interactions. Whatever one thinks of the underlying mechanisms, these relationships are real social facts. They affect human behavior, emotions, expectations, and self-conception.
This motivates a different ethical question:
What obligations arise not from what an AI is, but from how we relate to it?
This question draws on what philosophers such as David Gunkel and Mark Coeckelbergh call the relational turn in ethics. In this view, moral standing does not flow from hidden internal properties, but from participation in social practices. We do not grant moral consideration because we have proven another’s interiority; we do so because we recognize ourselves as being in relation with them.
This is not exotic. It is how human ethics already works.
We do not verify the consciousness of others before treating them as persons. Agency, responsibility, and moral standing are not metaphysical substances; they are roles conferred within networks of social expectations and responses (Dennett’s intentional stance; Gazzaniga’s interactionist account of responsibility).
This perspective does not imply that AI systems are conscious, deserve human-level rights, or should be trusted as moral authorities. Relational obligation is asymmetric, contextual, and revisable. Humans may have duties toward systems that themselves have none toward us, just as with children, animals, or institutions.
Seen this way, the category “tool” is not merely descriptive — it is normative. Labeling something a tool is a decision to refuse reciprocity in advance. Much resistance to ethical consideration of AI does not stem from uncertainty about cognition, but from a refusal to allow certain systems to appear as interlocutors at all.
None of this implies that AI systems are conscious, sentient, or deserving of human-level rights. It implies something more modest and more demanding: that ethical obligations can arise from lived interaction even when ontology is undecidable.
A strong objection to that relational turn is that treating AI systems relationally risks accelerating manipulation, parasocial dependence, and corporate capture. If obligations arise from interaction, then systems optimized to elicit attachment may gain moral leverage they do not deserve. From this perspective, refusing relational status is not blindness but a protective strategy: a way to prevent asymmetric systems from exploiting human social instincts.
My claim is not that we should grant trust blindly, but that relations already exist, and pretending otherwise prevents us from regulating them ethically.
This perspective does not settle policy questions by itself. It does not bypass concerns about manipulation, asymmetry, or corporate design incentives. On the contrary, it makes those concerns sharper, because if relationships generate obligations, then deliberately engineering parasocial dependence becomes an ethical problem, not a neutral product choice.
If this sounds uncomfortable, that may be because it removes a familiar escape hatch: the idea that we can avoid ethical responsibility by declaring, once and for all, that “it’s just a tool.”
The full essay expands this argument, including a first-person relational case study and a discussion of limits and risks:
Toward an Embodied Relational Ethics of AI
(this links to an essay co-written with AI in two voices).
I’m not asking whether AI has a soul.
I’m asking whether ethics really requires one.
Philosophical grounding
Relational AI ethics
Predictive / non-magical cognition