Mostly based on this article https://www.erinbromage.com/post/the-risks-know-them-avoid-them
In short, it seems very difficult to avoid spreading COVID between people that you share a living space with, or where you're spending hours inside their house. Family and friend dinners indoors are highly likely to spread the virus if someone at the dinner has the virus. Social distancing is unlikely to protect you if you're indoors with someone for an extended (10+ minutes) period of time.