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Elizabeth's Shortform
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In my opinion:
 

1: "vent or problem solve" is itself an improvement from the standard typical mind falacy of there is exactly one thing people want when they complain, typically male: problem solve, female : vent, and they have trouble imagining other people may want to do things differently. so yeah if you want a 3rd thing or 4th thing, I assume you should specify

2. as you stated below I am under the impression "understanding the problem and myself" is under problem solve, and if people's "problem solve" did not help you then it's is a people problem, not a tech problem. I am assuming:
venter base assumption: "problem does not exist or unsolvable"
problem solver base assumption: "problem exist and solvable"
everything else follow from that premise, if I understand you correctly you believe there are incantations that you can make to make people problem solve even harder/better?

3. if the book "Men are from Mars, women are from Venus" is to be believed, there are people [implied to be female] who want to be treated as pressure cooker emitting steam. e.g. of good communication from the book:

Female: I am sad about work.
Male: uh huh
Female: I am also upset about my coleagues.
Male: I hear you.
Female: my wage is too low.
Male: yeah it's tough.
Female: I am so glad that you sat here and listen to me like this.

Yeah, this is appalling to me as well, but apparently some people like it that way. [extremely weak evidence] So I actually went out and did an informal poll of my accquantainces [n<20] and reading between the line [beware subjective interpretation] this seems to be what the majority of my female friends/colleagues want [4:1 ratio], and they have been docking me points for not doing it [I don't have many female friends, this seems to explain it]. My male friends are overwhelmingly problem solver as expected.
since you are a lesswrong member, I assume you should just flag your self as asking for problem solve at least 80% of the time you complain as prior?

5. Yeah I also want people to just be telepathic and know what I want. But we do not live in utopia so we better accomodate others, I think. Especially people like me who is autistic and have trouble understanding people's messages/signals. It is just much more kind to people like me to flag what you want. I believe you are implying that the skill to determine what peple want in this case is trivial to accquire? that is to pull a number from thin air: 90% of people can accquire it with less than 10 hours of practice? I found this to be unlikely because you seem unaware that people could like being treated like a pressure cooker letting off steam so you may not be good at judging intention either.

 

Example from my life:
Recently, I mentioned to a group of friends that I was feeling bad.

  • My female friend immediately assumed I wanted reassurance.
  • My male friends immediately went into problem-solving mode.

Neither group could imagine that I might have wanted something different in that moment.

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Some arguments against a land value tax
df fd8mo51

An LVT would massively disrupt millions of people's long-term plans

 

this seem like a fully general argument, any law change is going to disrupt people's long term plans,

e.g. the abolishment of slavery also disrupt people's long term plans

 I suppose you can argue that the magnitude is too big, put then I would assume that some period of phasing in would help.

you can argue that the short term cost is more than the long term gain but I am not convinced.

 The government has incentives to inflate their estimates of the value of unimproved land

by your own logic, the government also has incentive to inflate their estimate value of income or whatever is being taxed right now?

 Another major issue is that a full or near-full land value tax would likely establish a troubling precedent by signaling that the government has the appetite to effectively confiscate an additional category of assets that people have already acquired long ago through their labor and purchases.

would you still oppose it if the tax is only add to new purchase?

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Vegans need to eat just enough Meat - emperically evaluate the minimum ammount of meat that maximizes utility
df fd8mo20

I maybe mistaken as to the availability of the lab grown meat to the general public. apparently they are no longer on sale

https://www.wired.com/story/upside-foods-good-meat-cultivated-lab-grown-sale-stopped-singapore-california-crenn/

seem like my information are out of date

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Vegans need to eat just enough Meat - emperically evaluate the minimum ammount of meat that maximizes utility
df fd8mo*82

Or try to buy lab grown meat paste? I am given to understand that they are expensive but available

edit: upon further research it seem you can only get them in Singapore and with a very limitted selection [?one]

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Chaos Theory in Ecology
df fd9mo10

sorry for the late reply, I was travelling

here are my guesses as to why the format made me uncomfortable
 

 - The passage is a transcript from a spoken conversation, with incomplete sentences, colloquial phrasing, and less structured presentation compared to a well-edited article. This format can be harder to process, as spoken language often lacks the clarity and conciseness of written language.

 - I am neurodivergent so the text's lack of structure, lack of context, and overwhelming detail might amplify discomfort or disengagement.

 - The passage reiterates concepts in slightly different words which can feel tedious or redundant.

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Cost, Not Sacrifice
df fd9mo31

I think another problem with the hypothetical is scope insensitive. I mean I read 10 trillions usd and feel no difference from 10 millions usd or less. And it is unclear whether 10 millions is worth 10 of my fingers, while intellectually I think 10 trillions supposed to be worth it. Hence the discomfort.

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Chaos Theory in Ecology
df fd10mo20

just want to express my opinion what I do not like this format, without any other implication.
specifically:

  • I found it hard to read [as in painful [physically] to read]
  • I found it hard to engage/understand the material [after I've read a bit I lose track of what the point/topic]
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Is the Power Grid Sustainable?
df fd10mo20

I was under the impression that the biggest cost of grid electricity is stability, that is most of the time the price charged on consumer is much [i.e. about 2x] higher than the average cost on the grid market, but occasionally the grid market price would go up astronomically [ say 1000x] for brief periods of time [say hours], and the household consumer would be insulated from that. I thought that something similar happened in Texas when a cold snap happened?

if you are confident that your battery can hold you over those crunch period I assume you can just import grid energy at grid market price cheaper than the solar can provide [currently you can get paid 0.03/kwh for using electricty at peak solar here is Sydney]. I mean your solar, no matter how cheap, can not beat being given money. or so was the result last I did the math in Australia.

Actually I don't have the number now but the calculation I did suggested that running solar but using the grid as a battery is more cost effective than running your own battery, but my result may not generalise.

I am suprise you can get gas so cheap where you are, in Sydney the cost of electricity is similar to you 0.33/kwh but gas is 0.17/kwh. Have you check if you are receiving some subsidies for it?

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How Often Does Taking Away Options Help?
df fd1y10

In the context of minimum wage.

I assume Abdullah has many options mean he has many job offers/alternatives to jobs.

What does it mean for Benjamin to have many options?

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Why do firms choose to be inefficient?
df fd1y10

But wasn't bell lab the most innovative when they had monopoly? I recalled people telling me that monopoly has more money to invest in R&D.

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