Speaking about my own experience, but I predict it generalizes to many others:
I definitely frequently have the experience you're describing, of building up an aversion to a task I'm procrastinating and then finding it to be a lot less unpleasant than I expected when I actually get around to it.
But I have a more gears-level model of why this happens: it's when I have major open questions about how to approach the task in the first place.
I haven't done the drill you're describing intentionally, but I have definitely noticed that if I do several of these kinds of things in quick succession (e.g. when I decide today is the day to catch up on my backlog of stuff I've been putting off), even if each individual one doesn't feel so bad, I end up mentally exhausted and resistant to demands.
So I think the cognitive load of figuring out how to even go about a task is genuinely costly to my brain, and it correctly feels averse to doing too much of it.
I end up mentally exhausted and resistant to demands.
I relate to this, but it makes me wonder if progressive overload / antifragile dynamics apply here. In resistance training you (1) expose your musculoskeletal system to stress, (2) consume nutrition for recovery, (3) rest to allow recovery beyond the initial setpoint, and (4) repeat step 1 with progressively increasing stress. So I wonder if mental stress works the same way.
I've tried looking into kinds of brain training such as dual-n-back and it seems like research is generally pessimistic about ski... (read more)
Have you ever been endlessly procrastinating on some task, but then once you eventually, finally do it, you realize that it is not half as bad as you thought?
Somehow, many of us keep overestimating how unpleasant it will be to engage with certain types of work to a degree where we put them off for months, building up guilt and resentment, when ultimately all we needed to have done was to grapple with some minor inconvenience.
On the other side, many of us know the feeling of having some drive to continue a thing once we've started it, even though it's supposedly unpleasant. I can dread doing my taxes for months, yet once I set a 5-minute timer to start working on them and get over that initial little hump, the sound of the timer causes disappointment in me rather than elation.
I think there are two primary issues here:
Fortunately, there's a simple intervention that can potentially address both of these issues.
The Procrastination Drill
The idea is pretty straightforward: you deliberately spend time starting to engage with aversive tasks over and over again, for short bursts of time. Additionally, you take notes on both your prediction of how unpleasant each task will be and your actual experience.
I suggest to proceed as follows:
First and foremost, going through this many times may build a habit of actually starting rather than procrastinating. Within this hour, you can easily reach 10-15 repetitions of seeing an aversive task in front of you and just going for it rather than looking for excuses for why now is not the right time to do it.
Secondly, by taking notes on how unpleasant you expect the tasks to be and how unpleasant your actual experience is, you may learn something new. When I first went through this, I leanred two things:
What's more, I was indeed often disappointed or annoyed by the random timer going off, sometimes even ignoring it to continue working on the given task for at least a few more minutes. This went as far as me rewarding myself after being done with the session by continuing to work on one of the tasks I started. A rather paradoxical experience!
Of course, your mileage may vary. Maybe you don't suffer from the underlying issues as much, or maybe this exercise just doesn't do much for you - but I suspect for some people it can be eye-opening. So, if you've never done this kind of exercise before, trying it once may be worth a shot.
The ideal duration may depend on the nature of your tasks, but I suggest to keep it short. The idea here is not to actually get much done, but to practice starting. In that sense it's also different from resolve cycles, even though the format is somewhat similar.