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she's more calling into question "why has this complaint become a common talking point? what unstated assumptions does it perpetuate?" I am not sure whether this is a valid approach that's alternate to the forms of argument I'm more used to, or a sign of weakness
It is good to have one more perspective, and perhaps also good to develop a habit to go meta. So that when someone tells you "X", in addition to asking yourself "is X actually true?" you also consider questions like "why is this person telling me X?", "what could they gain in this situation by maki... (read more)