There seem to be multiple fallacies all wrapped up into one class of response there. Just on a cursory glance:
... and probably a few more.
The "Christian bridge" example leads me to think that you are focussing on the "single cause" aspect here.
Yet-you-participate-in-society fallacy? Based on https://knowyourmeme.com/memes/we-should-improve-society-somewhat
I failed to identify whether this is a well-known fallacy, I would appreciate it if someone tells me what this is called.
The fallacy normally goes like this:
In all cases, the fallacy is assuming that if no public entity had created the environment allowing an individual to do something (or benefit from some advantage), no one else would have.
If there is no name for this fallacy I would suggest calling it the Christian bridge fallacy. I heard this example from Sam Harris. I don't remember his literal words but it goes like this;
In my examples, the same thing applies. I might have been able to study in a public school thanks to the government, but if that weren't the case, I would have probably studied anyway, only in a different way.
Please notice one important thing too: There might be some cases where this sort of argument is not a fallacy but a real objection.